So is it too early to be excited about a date on Friday?  Okay so we all know that I don’t always put a lot of faith in actually having a date with someone I chat with online or anywhere for that matter.  (Okay actually I always secretly think positive thoughts; I just don’t want to give away my cynical Jewish side)  Anyway, I got asked if I would like to meet up, which you hear online often and never really goes past that, the other day and I took the initiative and sent an email. To my surprise I got an actual call back and I have to say I got kind of a little anxiously excited during the call.  First let me say the man is FINE!  Not that I am bad looking but I was a bit surprised at the interest.  So back to the call, yes he decided instead of sending an email to actually call and talk.  I was impressed.  He was well spoken, seemed genuine, interesting and seemed to be excited in talking with me.  Then to top that off I got an email this morning.  This is the most communication I have had before a date in quite awhile.  And I have learned more about him in those two aspects of communication then on any coffee date I have had in the past. So, back to the question is it too early to be excited?  I remember once upon a time when I was younger getting all excited and almost giddy before a date.  When did that stop? And why does have too?  Sure it can’t be the same reaction it was then I mean I am almost 40 now but why can’t I still get that same sense of nervousness and excitement and enjoy it?  I probably shouldn’t post this because he knows I have a blog and can read it, but you know what fuck it.  I am excited; I want to be excited about a date.  I guess the universe can surprise you after all.  Let’s keep are fingers crossed that it goes well!